Some men have mistaken ideas about what women actually like during sex.

Men get a lot of these ideas from porn movies or other similar sources, but most women don't enjoy these things, or enjoy them only in moderation. 

Life is not a porn movie, and acting like the people in porn movies is not the best way to enjoy sex.

Lovemaking is about making each other feel good, so it is smart to know what things to avoid to make sex pleasurable for her, and ultimately for you.

Because if she is enjoying herself you will also be enjoying yourself, too. One thing to avoid during sex is pounding into your partner. This does not generally bring a woman to orgasm, and you risk hurting one or both of you, especially if you miss with one of your thrusts.

While this activity may look good in a porn movie, it doesn't actually feel that good in real life. Going in and out really fast can be good sometimes, but with sex, quality is important. You want to have good sex, and varying the way you go in and out is one way to achieve it.

You want to use your penis as an instrument to make her feel good, and to make you feel good. Another thing that you should avoid during sex is being too rough. 

Touching too hard or handling her body parts roughly will probably not make her happy. Rough sex that hurts, or anything that is painful should not be done without asking her first.

Sex is about love, not making her feel bad. If she is into rough sex, she will let you know, and you should always ask before engaging in anything that might be considered questionable when it comes to rough handling. 

There are other things that women do not generally enjoy. Some women really dislike it when a man ejaculates on some of her body parts.

You need to find out beforehand if it is okay to deposit sperm in her mouth or her hair or on her buttocks. Some women are okay with this, but others are definitely not, so check first to make sure she wants to come back and have sex with you again. 

Most of all treat her like the woman you are in love with. Don't be mechanical when it comes to sex. Change things up, because you will both enjoy it. Having sex the same old way you always do is a sure way to make your sex life boring and predictable. 

Also, no woman is perfect, so make sure that you are not comparing her to the women you see in sexual magazines or porn movies.

Those women aren't as perfect as they appear, either. They have the benefit of air brushing, computer editing, and excellent lighting. Those women are not real; the one that is with you is real. Cherish her and make her feel great about how she looks and feels, and your sex life will be better for it.