Pornography is an ideal way to enhance your sexual life. Watching it with your lady is a great way to get entertained and learn new ways of bedroom performance. Both of you can get to know about the comfort zones of each other and about where to draw the line. Porn stars are paid for making it appear as if they are enjoying it, but the fact may be that they are acting and not enjoying themselves. Certain things happening in adult movies must be avoided in real sex life.
Some few don’ts are:
Don’t touch aggressively – The actors are professionals and can handle rough play often. This is for the camera as it cannot detect a subtle caress but a strong thrust or groping of your tongue is caught clearly. Things are exaggerated on the screen, for example grabbing her hair and banging her against the groin, during an oral sex appears appealing in the movie but if you do it in real life, your lady will avoid having oral sex with you.
Don’t hammer – Banging in and out of your woman may desensitize her because she is not a paid porn star actress, who fakes love. Many women love to feel the weight and pressure of your total body and groin against their body. Nevertheless, you don’t have to repeat the thrusting in and out to give her the final climax but at times go slow, take a breathe and let her enjoy your body pressure. Behave like the man you are and not like the movie actor.
Don’t play boisterously – Being forceful by holding her down or smacking her firmly on her bottom is simply going to hurt, which will not be favorable. Be gentle and handle her delicately. If she desires boisterous sex make sure you start slowly and monitor her signals.
Don’t be monotonous – Women are changeable and react to new things differently. The caress she had enjoyed the last time may not turn her on the next week. However, you will have to feel her with your touch passionately and monitor her reactions.
Don’t dismantle or gawk at her – During sex women are self-conscious, so never expect to watch her like the actresses in adult movies, who expose every nooks and corners. Don’t gawk or do things like dividing her butt cheeks. She will feel embarrassed, distressed, and discouraged. She will feel insecure and shy away from moving ahead. She is not your toy, who can be dismantled and stared at.
Don’t use her as a sperm dumper – She does not desire to feel like a sperm dumping ground. So, before dropping your cum anywhere on her body ask her. Back, breast and stomach are rationally safe regions but face, head, bottom or hair is take permission area.
Some dos are as follows:
Give and take – Adult movies are kept lively by sharing oral sex taking turns, which adds variety. You can easily add it in your sexual session. Sharing sexual movements keeps things moving and avoids desensitization or monotony from cyclic actions.
Take it cheerfully – Porn is to be taken lightly. Hideous acting and crappy music can easily look weird in real sex life. Sometimes sex should be entertaining and ridiculous. You can change locations, play dress up, prolong the foreplay, and masturbate in front of one another, which are tremendously healthy additions to your sexual life.