Words said indiscreetly can make or break relationships. It is not what you utter, but also how you verb it. Everything is moving smoothly and suddenly your phrases seem to be dangling in the air and she gives you a rebuff look. No matter how great you are at sex, but an unfiltered dialogue slips out and damages your sexual life. Here is a list of things not to be said to a woman in the bed.
“What’s your name….?”
Every woman hopes that you memorize their name before jumping on the bed with them. Nevertheless, if you forget it, during your sexual session then asking her in the middle of your performance will be inappropriate. This phrase can make her feel despicable and turn her off, which is undesirable.
Another girl’s name
Forgetting the girl’s name and uttering another woman’s name is a sex killer. In a passionate moment, if you say another girl’s name then you are sure to be kicked out of the bed. This verbal blunder you committed is a mistake that cannot be apologized. You will have to be more apologetic then pamper her and simply expect her to pardon you.
“I admire the way your breast bobs”
Compliments are accepted lovingly by every female and if carried out appropriately can give you a mind blowing orgasm. However, ensure that you think twice before phrasing sentences. Enlightening someone that their breasts, butt, thighs and tummy vibrate wonderfully during libido can make them feel uncomfortable. Therefore, keep away from drawing attention to certain zones that females are insecure about. Sex is effective, when the girl feels confident and not anxious about her body.
“Hush, can you keep your voice down?”
If the girl is having a blissful time then she just screams. It shows that you are doing something appropriate. So, think again, before you ask her to turn her volume down. You must have read about a UK lady, who was drawn to the court, after the police got approximately 25 complaints regarding her noisy lovemaking sessions. Subsequently, if you feel uncomfortable and do not wish the law to knock on your door, discuss it with her outside your bedroom.
“Who’s your dad?”
While making love yelling, ‘who’s your mom’ or ‘who’s your dad’ is not the perfect time to talk about during sex. Timing is sinister and corny. The worst part will be that the girl will instantly focus on her family. The thought of family during sexual sessions is a total turn off.
“You are your mom’s copy”
Females love their mothers intensely, so if you slip the statement it will direct too many issues, even if you are right. You meant it to be a compliment, but the girl will compare the traits with her mother for example, if she is independent like her mother then hearing it from you can root trouble.
Many researches and books have been written regarding the female brains, which are complex and emotional. You have experienced rejection in the previous relationship due to careless blurting. Even then there is still no way to find out on which innocuous statement your current girlfriend will get disappointed.