Men have a natural inclination to cheat. They cheat at cards on poker night with their buddies. 

They cheat on their taxes and rationalize that what the government doesn't know won't hurt them.

Some men also cheat on the woman they love. Are you about to cheat? Ask yourself these questions.

Have you become a consummate storyteller about every aspect of your life when before getting information out of you was like pulling teeth?

Do you have a ready alibi for every situation that might be considered suspicious? Obviously, you are getting prepared to do something you probably shouldn't. 

Do you feel trapped in your current relationship? For a long time, you have been happy with the woman you were with and comfortable in your relationship. 

Then, either suddenly or over a period of time, you start feeling like a fish on a hook and you can't get enough air except for when you are talking to women that aren't your current ladylove. Feeling trapped is a classic sign that cheating is a definite possibility.

Are developing relationships with other women? Do you find yourself building relationships with women at work, at the club where you go for a drink after work and women who you meet casually? 

Perhaps you flirt way more than you used to. Maybe you even find yourself collecting phone numbers that you tell yourself you are not going to use.

When you talk to these other women, do you keep it a secret that you have a significant other right now? You are starting to slide down that slippery slope to cheating. Do you have thoughts about sex with other women? 

Specific women? Pretty much every man on the planet has thoughts about sex and fantasizes about what it would be like to have sex with a hot celebrity or chick they see in passing.

But when you start having specific sexual thoughts about women that you know, or you find yourself being unable to have sex with your partner unless you fantasize she is someone else, you need to evaluate what it is you really want. 

Do you suddenly think that your buddies who cheated on their girlfriends are not really doing anything so bad?

Accepting their behavior and rationalizing it means that you are trying to convince yourself that it is okay to cheat. You start to think that if other people are doing it, then it is not so wrong. 

Everyone is doing it, right? If you notice these changes in yourself, then you really need to take some time to evaluate what you already have and what it is you really want.

You may need to get out of your current relationship if it is not what you want, but you need to do it before you start seeing other women and having sex with other women. 

You cared enough at some point to get into a relationship with the current woman in your life, you should have enough decency to end it with some dignity and class. 

If, however, you realize that you still want her, then it is time for some honesty and open communication so that you can make some changes in the relationship that will help it to be better and stronger.