A lot of relationships are suffering today because of the sensitive topic of penis size. All of a sudden, nearly every man is beginning to believe that they

A lot of relationships are suffering today because of the sensitive topic of penis size. All of a sudden, nearly every man is beginning to believe that they aren’t adequately packaged between their legs.

Although most men pretend not to care, penis size effect on mental state is fast becoming a huge problem. Bedroom performance has been adversely impacted due to the mistaken notion that a bigger penis equates to more sexual satisfaction.

I will tell you this for free – you don’t necessarily require a bigger schlong for you to perform excellently in the bedroom. Certain factors improve your sexual performance much more than your penis size. 

Here are five things that are more important than the size of your penis.

Confidence

Confidence can take you places – places you never thought you could go. Unfortunately, a lot of men don’t seem to understand and value the importance of confidence. But ladies rank this virtue highly.

A woman loves a man who believes in himself. A confident man is a real man and women are very appreciative of this trait in a man. Start by believing in yourself in every aspect of your life.

But you have to distinguish between confidence and arrogance or overconfidence. Don’t put yourself on the mantle though. Arrogance is when you believe you are right and disregard your female companion’s opinions. Overconfidence makes you act aloof and in a demeaning or insulting manner toward your spouse’s desire.

But sexual self-confidence is different. Here, you have faith and believe that you can successfully undertake a sexual performance to satisfy your lover’s desire. You’ll be surprised how amazing you are in the bedroom.

On the other hand, if you don’t exude some self-confidence during the act, it will become impossible for you to perform as efficiently as you would want.

Communication

Communication is a paramount tool in any relationship. Learn to communicate with your partner to understand what she wants. Similarly, make it a two-way channel so that you also decipher what she values in the relationship.

The best relationships thrive on effective communication. You might be worried about your penis size, yet your sex life can easily be bettered through excellent communication.

As such, just like you strive to deliver the best in your career through effective communication, so should you update your lover on how to improve intimacy.

Effective mutual communication is dynamic. Conflicting situations arise in various social environments. Besides, sexual desires and aspirations are also constantly evolving. Hence, always try to engage your partner in establishing what her sexual needs and preferences are.

Ready to explore – sex positions and styles

Ask people who enjoy good sex; they will tell you about the art of exploration. Good sex life is characterized by some things, one of them being the ability and readiness to experiment with what works and what doesn’t.

Experiment entails many factors. They include changing sex time, altering sex location, and even sexual fantasies. Find out how well your partner and you can make do with whichever new sex styles and positions you want to try out.

The key is to communicate and agree on how to do it. It may or may not work out for you, but at least you have tried it. Others require some practice or may be enjoyable to one but not the other.

So this is something that must be discussed with your partner and agree on whether to practice, include, or discard it. Show her how important this is and why it should be integrated into your sexual encounters.

Foreplay

I cannot overemphasize the importance of foreplay in matters of the bedroom. One of the keys to satisfaction is allowing enough time for things to heat up during sex.

Forget about what people say about finishing strong. Females are differently wired and hence favor foreplay more than for us men. 

In this regard, you need to have a frank conversation with a woman to realize how important foreplay is during sex. As far as the sexual prelude is concerned, don’t assume that your woman loves the same thing you do.

For her, a lack of foreplay could ruin the entire evening, and hence it’s crucial that you make it an integral part of lovemaking.