The portrayal of lesbians in the porn world is totally different when compared to the real world scenario. Unfortunately, your idea about lesbian sex might include hair braiding, innocent pillow fights, rough straps at work, and others. The reality is much different from this dream. You can learn better ways of lovemaking from lesbians and adapt their techniques for enhancing your sexual performance.

Are men dull in bed?

You may be absolutely shocked to learn that the majority of women find men actually boring on the bed. Lesbians in relationships experience a high level of sexual fulfillment in comparison to heterosexual women. It is mostly because of the needs in bed during sex differences between men and women. This is not the case with lesbians who know what to do to satisfy each other. They are aware of what they need and how to achieve it or go for it.

At times, men treat sex as a means to get released or a job that has a planned structure. For example – get her lubricated inside, penetrate, thrust in/out heatedly, get relieved, roll over, and go to sleep.

Lesbian lovemaking

On the other hand, women are sensitive. They need to have cared and handled delicately or else they are turned off. It takes time to get them in the mood, unlike men. A woman takes at least twenty minutes to get wet and passionate. Whereas lesbians are both girls, so they are aware of woman nature and bring the whole concept including kissing, caressing, touching, massaging and sucking into the bedroom. All these gestures are adored by every woman. These drive them totally wild and crazy. You may have been ignoring these zones or performing them routinely.

During the actual lovemaking session, you may be absent because your mind is loaded with an array of events, which just makes your performance mechanical until the end. Unfortunately, you achieved climax but the magic of great lovemaking is lost, forgotten or just ignored. The magical ingredient maximizes the pleasure for both.

Oral sex and orgasm

Conversely, when lesbian couples make love or enjoy libido, they are not selfish to think about their personal satisfaction or about the common goal of having a mind-blowing orgasm but more than that. Women recognize that attaining the goal of explosive orgasm is not the end of the session. Everything from look, touch, caress, and feeling between orgasms is included in the whole sexual experience.

They relish the warmth of the body, softness of the skin, the smell of their body intensity of breath, partner's reaction, and respond to every caress and touch. Every minute details of their partner's body language are monitored. Their main aim is basically about two lovers uniting together to share intimacy and mutual pleasure.

Men can achieve it

Lesbians as women have deep understanding and consideration of their partners and know the way to give it. This can be achieved by every man out there with their heterosexual partners. Girls need foreplay intimacy and involvement in the entire process, instead of a tool to get sapped off. To attain great sex regularly then you must play your role in giving great sex.